& They Still Wonder Why;

Today at school, my friend again didn't eat anything at lunch. Actually, the whole last week, she hasn't ate a thing. I'm starting to get worried that she might have a eating disorder. Which is not good, not good at all. 

When I got home from school, she came over as usual, and I talked to her about how she hasn't been eating anything at lunch. & she said, " I'm only trying to lose a few pounds". "She seemed to be getting really angry at me, and just left my house. 

This brings me to todays topic. Everyone obviously knows that eating disorders are definintly not the best way to get skinny. But still researchers show that %5 of American teen girls have a eating disorder. Weather it's starving yourself, or puking whenever there is a toilet in sight, there are 5 girls out of 100 who are suffering on getting there dream shape. & there is not one thing bad about getting in shape. But having a eating disorder, now, that is certainly not the way to do it. 

And you know, I wondered why anybody would do something that harmful to themselves. I mean, obviously they no it's not good for them. In till I figured out where the root of this problem is coming from. 

In my beliefs, It's just 

Society's definition of beauty.                   

that is destroying us girls, 

Think about it, nobody wants to be ugly. And face it, society has pretty much made it clear that FAT is a insult.  

So. 

is it really those magazines,

or those bullies on the bus, 

or even those super pretty skinny girls walking around school. 

Yes, actually, it's all of them.

The world will be happier and a little healthier if society would stop judging. Anyone and everyone can help. 

And believe me, it's not that hard.